In the sixth year of marriage, the family’s financial income and our psychological state have reached maturity. We have changed from not planning to have children to letting children join the ranks of life, and even looking forward to bringing the children to joy when traveling abroad. This expectation was once lost. It doesn't matter if you arrive...because the friends around you are mostly the Hakka people who enjoy the life of husband and wife. They usually meet and travel together, and they also agree to live in the retirement village together to take care of each other when they are old.But I didn't expect that this year suddenly ushered in the good news of pregnancy, the original life of the two is about to transform into a threesome!
Regarding childbirth, it is a long way to go
After marriage, I have always focused on my work. I have never thought about having children. Even Wendy doesn’t want to contact that much. It’s not that our two husbands and wives don’t like children. On the contrary, I love my sister very much. The two children also helped take care of them when they went abroad.Perhaps it is a single-parent family background factor. I know that the role of parents in the process of growing up is very important, and the source of family income cannot be ignored. We always consider repeatedly...Can we be a good parent?Can you provide for the children's growth process?If you can't, don't let your children suffer in this world.
In the past few years, I would like to thank several seniors and friends for their support. I am very lucky to have noble people to help make everything go smoothly.Unexpectedly, the father-in-law left us suddenly. The old man’s wish could not be achieved with his grandson in his arms. So I asked, "Should I have a baby?" Wendy agreed and started this "baby task."
Experience the artificial insemination treatment, knowing that you are a mother is a strong mood
Married to this day, the two have maintained the frequency of traveling abroad, and there is no contraception. Why didn't they get pregnant because of this?Could it be that Wendy and I are both very old, or is there something wrong with our physical functions?
I checked the information related to “artificial insemination” on the Internet. I appreciate that there are many mother bloggers and forums to share their experiences. They chose to go to the outpatient clinic of Doctor Bao of Obstetrics and Gynecology of Peking University University to see whether the uterine status has any cause that affects conception through the first visit. You have to draw blood to check the endocrine data, as well as the fallopian tube photography to check whether there is stickiness, etc. These items are at your own expense, and secondly, it takes a lot of time for each check-up and outpatient service. Once again, they are lucky enough to take care of them. Nothing wrong with the state.
Immediately after starting the first artificial insemination treatment, I purchased the medicine at my own expense. I am not afraid of injections... and I don’t have the courage to give injections by myself. Thank you Wendy for patiently helping me get the injections every day. I was afraid that I would be painful and I was serious about learning how to do it. Even when traveling abroad, I took these injections with me. After completion, I will continue to check the travel information and adjust the next day's itinerary.I thought that I would have a chance to conceive successfully after 5/20 implantation, and I worked very hard to cope with the medicine to stabilize it, but...the body temperature gradually dropped after three days, and I immediately bought a pregnancy test stick in exchange for a line of treatment results.
For a while, I was really disappointed and sad, still crying in front of Wendy, "Why am I not pregnant?". (I think of it now, I'm too serious about gains and losses...)
▲ When I went to Beijing Medical University, I found that many girls were unable to get pregnant because of uterine problems, and many Hong Kong friends came to see the doctor. (The medical fee in Hong Kong is too expensive, and the cost of a single test tube treatment is as high as 45)
▲ The final stage of conception and implantation will be reached through gradual testing.
▲ Wendy learned how to give me an ovulation injection in the Beijing Medical Clinic.
▲ In Fukuoka in May, Wendy helped me complete the injection every night.
▲ After the injection, I continued to check the travel information, just to give my friends a fun journey. I am really lucky to be accompanied by him.
▲A few days ago, asked him if he was nervous to give me an injection?He just told me that I was "stressed."
▲ At that time, blood vessels could not be found in the blood draw, resulting in a black spot on the arm.
▲I went to Beijing Medical University for implantation early in the morning, and 5/20 failed to become Lucky Day.
▲ After returning home, I took out the goddess prayed by the Kyoto Shrine to wear. This goddess has different pros and cons. They are for child and safe delivery.
▲ Unsuccessful after the first artificial insemination, the fate with the child is not enough.
Let go, relax, let go, and enjoy the time without work pressure
Discussing with Wendy, hoping to take a short break and leave the workplace for a while, it can be described as...get up and travel!Not only Wendy went to the media for two visits, visiting Kanchanaburi, Thailand and Vietnam, and I also traveled to Tokyo with my sisters, and an 18-day trip to southern Germany with my friends, Dafang and his wife. Three trips back home from Thailand, etc., counted down and reached many trips for the first time:
1. Wendy traveled to Vietnam for the first time and took pictures of the beautiful scenery of the boats on the sea in Halong Bay, which poisoned me
2. After many years, I traveled abroad with my sisters again and did a lot of shopping
3. The first long-distance trip to Germany, I saw Oktoberfest, German pork knuckles and delicious beer
4. Finally set off for a visit to the Philippines and saw the clear and beautiful scenery of the island water
5. The first family mobilization to travel home, a large purchase with luggage weighing more than 40 kilograms for each person (I will not finish the list below...)
Thinking back to each day of the journey in detail, this requires the support and understanding of the other half, allowing me to do what I want to do and projects during this time, and really take a break.
▲ Wendy and Brother Skye traveled together in Vietnam, but they did not expect that they were invited to interview again this year.
▲ When Wendy sent the photos, I wish I was here in Halong Bay.
▲ The first time I came to Disney Sea to play, I still came with my sisters. I was very happy.
▲ Oktoberfest!A group of Germany who is thinking about it day and night.
▲ It's a pity that it is a rare visit to the Philippine islands to be unable to go diving due to the menstrual period.
▲ Watch the beautiful sunset and night on Samet Island with Wendy.
▲I came to Tokyo Shimokitazawa for the first time, and I really enjoyed shopping and buying.
▲ I have never participated in craft courses in Japan, and I suddenly feel fresh.
▲ After the New Year, I went to Bangkok and Hua Hin with my family. At this time... the baby has arrived.
▲ In mid-February, I visited a medical resort in Khao Yai with the Tourism Bureau of Thailand. The results of the nurse's treatment reminded me to drink more water, rest more, and not be too tired.
The legendary fetal dream thanked the Bodhisattva for giving flowers, and the little baby lay leisurely in his stomach
In the second week of March, I had a nap and dreamed of Guanyin Bodhisattva. In my dream, I prayed to the Bodhisattva for a child. The Bodhisattva gave me a pink flower. The dream turned to the clinic screen. I followed everyone in line to see the doctor. Suddenly one The nurse in white clothes grabbed my wrist and said, "You are pregnant." After waking up from the dream... In addition to thanking the Bodhisattva in my heart, if there is occasional bleeding these days, I should ask Wendy to take me to the Chinese medicine doctor. , You can get a chance to get pregnant if you take good care of your body.TCM doctors didn't take the pulse out of pregnancy at that time (calculating the time is about 3 weeks), and told me that Qi and blood deficiency should be treated with medicine. Fortunately...I didn't take the medicine prescribed by the doctor...otherwise the problem would be serious. (Wendy laughs that I usually watch too many martial arts and costume dramas, but the Chinese medicine doctor can diagnose pregnancy with such a magical pulse.)
I used an APP to record my menstrual cycle on weekdays. I have estimated that the menstrual period has not come for more than 2 months. In addition, the body temperature has always been high, and I did not report any expectations. I still went to the opposite pharmacy to buy a pregnancy test stick and followed the medicine the next day. The teacher suggested the operation, showing two lines... I was very excited, and I quickly checked the nearby obstetrics and gynecology clinic and rushed to see a doctor!
The doctor smiled and checked with ultrasound, and said, "Hey! There is already a heartbeat, and the implantation position is OK and there is a placenta. Congratulations." After hearing this sentence, he couldn't help crying and watched a white dot on the screen beating quickly. , Was moved and couldn't help but say to him/her "Hi, we finally met!".
▲ The baby's first ultrasound will arrive in October, and it will have the same constellation as her mother.
Following the word-of-mouth recommendation of my sister and friends, I chose Hexin Clinic for the first check-up
I immediately got the mother’s handbook when I learned that I was pregnant. The number of weeks has reached 10 weeks. It is stated in the book that the first check-up is recommended to be completed 12 weeks ago. On 4/2, I have to travel to South Korea. The remaining week is a bit rushed. I don't have any ideas at all, I can only rely on relatives and friends to help.Well-known women's hospitals include National Taiwan University, Women's and Children's Hospitals, President Rong, etc., considering that each check-up in the future will not be too far away from the general birth, please ask my sister to help me ask a few friends, is there any recommendation?After receiving the advice of "Hexin Clinic", I checked related blog posts and forum information on the Internet. I felt that Hexin had many and complete inspection items at his own expense, and the doctor team's experience was also trustworthy.
When we registered at the clinic, the nurses in the clinic were so kind and could understand the confusion of our novice parents. They informed each step of the consultation and the birth check in an orderly manner, and they answered our questions patiently until Dr. Lin Jiahui visited the clinic.We did all the self-financed items for the first check-up, and we all hope to help the baby with the most complete test. Even if a blood test requires 6 to 7 tubes of blood, it is not very painful.Since my weight is already overweight, I am afraid that my baby will absorb too much or not enough due to old age, overweight, and improper diet. The health teacher in the clinic will teach you the nutrients that need to be absorbed, the ratio of meals, and the intake of each pregnancy period. , This is also very fortunate to choose to come here to see a doctor.
Finally, we were about to travel to South Korea, asked the doctor’s advice, prescribed progesterone to us, reminding us to take it immediately and rest more if we have bleeding, reminding us not to be too tired.On the Internet, there are many Geyou perfect introductions to Hexin's obstetric inspection projects. If you are interested, you can search online!I am very happy to be able to share every journey and every stage of life here. This time the little baby joins the ranks of Love Travel. I hope that the child will come around safely and healthily, and make it everywhere in the future journey planning!
▲ Following my sister's suggestion, we are Dr. Lin Jiahui.
▲ The nurse will assist in registering the basic items of height and weight.
▲ Hexin Clinic needs to pay 500 yuan for ultrasound photos, but images and videos will be downloaded!
▲ We have done all the items above the neck zona pellucida.
▲ Ready to draw blood.
▲ Here, teacher Wei explains the diet during pregnancy.
▲ 11週了！預產期約10/14、10/16或10/17。
▲ Jump strongly and forcefully at 173 beats per second.
▲ Seeing the baby waving his hands and moving his head, I feel so cute!
▲ After pregnancy, Anyade suspends travel home, because Zika virus affects pregnant women the most.
▲ Pregnant women really don't have the right to catch a cold, so they have to wear masks when going in and out. (Laughs) I look forward to sharing every pregnancy record afterwards for everyone to participate!
