About to enter marriage, there is always a trace of uncertainty in my heart. After all, I was a highly believer in "celibacy" seven or eight years ago.These days I have been eating with Guagua and asked him, "If Auntie and Uncle marry, would you wish to have another younger brother or younger sister?", the kid curiously said, "Brother, I now have two younger sisters, which is enough for me to have a headache. That's it."
Wendy’s brothers and sisters are already married and have children. There is a sister and a cousin behind Guagua. Therefore, there is no fellow traveler, so he walked around at home with a gun to play the "survival game". So for this The answer is not surprising.
He and Doudou are four years old. The younger sister who has learned to walk likes to run behind her brother very much. The tender cheeks are the most attacking areas of our group of adults.
Wendy and I both have brothers and sisters. For me, it is good for children to grow up in the same environment. Only children have many disadvantages of poor upbringing. Let the children learn to be brothers and sisters and younger siblings. Such a role helps them to integrate into the lives of their peers. Only by getting along with our adults, the mind will be too mature. "Child talk" is always good.
Once asked Wendy "Do you prefer boys? Girls?", she actually answered me "As long as it doesn't make noise," the question is, is there a kid who doesn't make noise? !Later, it turns out that there are still some!Although Doudou is just over one year old, I heard my second sister said that her temper is sometimes very stubborn, but she is really good and doesn't cry! (The voice of mystery: Guagua loves to cry when he was a child, which caused Wendy, who had lived with him, to be afraid of children making noise)
Ask Wendy again "Which do you prefer Guagua? Or Peas", this time I replied "Guagua". It turns out that noisy is noisy. Everyone loves smart kids. Guagua is very good at studying and literacy. Smart, I also believe that he will not tell me this answer because of "boys", but how to raise smart children is actually very learned. I only hope that we don’t become the parents who force our own wishes on our children. We can follow He wants to live his own life.
It is our greatest wish that children can grow up happily. Both boys and girls can love them the same way.
